The Spring 2025 Trend I’m Actually Loving

Every year, we are always inundated with the latest “trends” or “micro-trends” that you just HAVE to purchase. And yes, we all know it’s just fueled by the buy-buy-buy mentality. And frankly, at a certain age you just really don’t CARE whether something is cool or not, as long as you love it.

Anyways, I’ve always loved the vintage band tee and distressed denim look. It’s a little tough/badass, while still being pretty timeless and trend-free. However, I’ve noticed lately that a more oversized t-shirt with a cropped hem keeps popping up on my feed.

Yes, I know that is very specific. But like this:

Source: Octopiedmind.com

It’s cropped, but there is no belly on display. And it’s a boxy cut, so it’s nice and slubby and oversized. These tops from Octopied Mind intrigued me, so I decided to play around with the look a bit on my own.

First off, I hit up my favorite thrift stores and checked out the men’s t-shirt sections. I wanted something boxy and oversized and found a couple graphic tees that I liked for less than $5 each. Then, I brought them home, washed them, tried them on and chopped them with a pair of scissors.

After wearing them for a few weeks, I have feedback. I LOVE the look. But I was overaggressive in chopping them too short. After a few wearings/washings the hem tends to roll up and get shorter. I’ve learned my lesson now and on my latest try I chopped the tee right at my hips. That way, after wearing them a few washes I can determine if they need another little trim.

So yes, thrift stores for the win again!

However, to be completely transparent I also ordered a couple tee shirts from Octopied Mind because the ads internet stalked me and how could I resist a shirt that says “Poison the Patriarchy” with Medusa on it?! Or “Overwhelmed and Overtired” or “Riots Not Diets”. While they do offer the cropped versions for sale (as pictured above), I ordered the longer versions so I could do a bespoke cropping on my own. I’ll be sure to post photos on my Instagram when they arrive!

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What Do You Do With Teenagers During the Summer? (Seriously, I’m Asking.)

This is the first summer ever that my kid is officially old enough that I don’t have to plan for daily childcare. Also new this year – I’m working a mostly remote job. Which means that we will both be home, I can sleep in until something crazy like 8:30am on workdays, and we are not spending THOUSANDS of dollars on summer camp.

Which is a total winner. But also, kind of confusing. Because while we’ve now entered the “no more camp drop-offs” era, we are not exactly in the “see you at dinner, Mom” phase either. The kid is 13. Independent-ish, but not feral in the woods like a GenX kid level of self-sufficient.

He still needs some structure to his days to keep his brain from turning to mush from endless Fortnight games and Netflix marathons. But also, I kind of WANT his brain to get a little mushy, because it’s summer. And after 10 months of non-stop school and homework, he deserves a break.

Which makes me wonder… what do people do with teenagers all summer?!

Here are my thoughts so far:

  • Daily chore list – Each summer I typically give him a daily chore list on days that he’s home with me and I’m teleworking, so this is pretty normal for him. Things on the daily chore list include actual chores – like emptying the dishwasher, cleaning his room, and vacuuming – and also ‘annoying mom chores’ like read for 20 minutes and create art with something.
  • Volunteering – He’s too young to get an actual job, but I’m keeping my eyes open for any volunteer opportunities that might be a good fit. Maybe there will be something at the library, or at the local animal shelter?
  • Sneaky Learning – The local community college has some half-day class options for teens, so I signed him up for a couple video game animation courses.
  • Lending Him Out – I have 6 nephews and nieces between my 3 siblings and they are all pretty much obsessed with Jack. I may lend him out as a helper for a day here and there to help keep an eye on the little kids at the park or splash pad.
  • Learn a Life Skill – Sure, he’s only 13 but I’m trying to raise an awesome dude, so maybe we should start with learning how to cook something? Or how to do laundry properly from start to finish?

Suggestions welcome! If you’ve figured out how to keep teens reasonably productive, relatively social, and only mildly screen-addicted during summer break… let me know.

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Planning Another Family Trip to Sedona

I was so, so, so happy to see the calendar switch over to April, because spring break is almost here. And the best part of spring break… planning this year’s return trip to Sedona! We visited once before for a four-day weekend, but it wasn’t nearly enough time so we are excited to have a whole week for our vacation.

I mentioned some tips on using ChatGPT to help plan a vacation (you can find the post here), so I created this year’s itinerary from a combination of place/things we liked before, stuff we wanted to do but didn’t have time for, and recommendations from ChatGPT that felt good to us.

Here’s our current plan:

Day 1: Fly to Phoenix and drive to Prescott, AZ

Last time we visited Sedona, we flew into Phoenix and stayed in a hotel overnight before exploring Phoenix and Scottsdale. This time, we decided to fly into Phoenix a little earlier, get our rental car and drive straight out to Prescott, AZ. Why Prescott? Well, we wanted to be within easy driving distance to Phoenix and Sedona, but not pay the sky-high Sedona prices. I found a cute VRBO to rent in Prescott and we are excited to make it our home base.

Day 2: Explore Prescott

After a day of work, airplane and then driving to our home base, we want the first full day in Arizona to feel a little lazy. So we will stock up at the grocery store, explore the town, and go on some local hikes. I have a few restaurant recommendations, secondhand/antique stores, and even a popular rock shop on our list, thanks to ChatGPT.

Day 3: Explore Sedona

 The drive from Prescott to Sedona is about 1 ½ hours, so we will make our way there after breakfast. Once we get to Sedona, we definitely want to revisit the local donut shop Sedonuts for a morning snack, because they are awesome! We’re going to do a hike, stop somewhere for lunch and then visit the Tlaquepaque Arts & Craft Village, since we ran out of time on our last trip.

Day 4: Explore the Grand Canyon

Will we ACTUALLY make it to the Grand Canyon on this trip?! The chances of being snowed out are certainly less in April than when we failed back in January 2023, so this time we may actually make it to the South Rim. The drive from Prescott is about 2 ½ hours, so we are planning to drive there, hike part of the Rim Trail and check out a bunch of the scenic viewpoints. On my ChatGPT recommendations was to drive along the Desert View Drive with stops at Grandview Point, Lipan Point and Desert View Watchtower. Depending on our hunger, we will either stop in Flagstaff on our way back for dinner, or eat somewhere on the way home to Prescott.

Day 5: Explore Prescott

Another day to explore Prescott, this time with some hiking, e-biking and maybe even some kayaking around the Dells at Watson Lake!

Day 6: Explore Sedona

Back to Sedona for another day of hiking! Some possible hikes on our list include: Bell Rock Loop, Cibola Pass to Jordan Trail, Cathedral Rock Trail, Boynton Canyon Vortex, Scorpion Trail, and Fay Canyon Trail.

Day 7: Slow Return to Phoenix

We will wake up, clean up and leave the VRBO by noon. Then, we will either hang around Prescott for the morning, or we will make the drive to Phoenix and spend the morning there – possibly at the Desert Botanical Garden. We will eat a yummy lunch somewhere in Phoenix and then do the whole return the car, check into the airport, and hop on a plane to come back home.

I can’t wait! If you have any recommendations for places we shouldn’t miss – whether it be food options, hikes, stores, or views – let me know!

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