It’s Like “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie”… but with Bills

Whew. January has been a doozy! I saw a meme recently that said something like “I did the 14-day free trial for 2025 and I don’t want it” and I am FEELING that.

Back in early December, we had the fun surprise of suddenly having no water, which resulted in a call to our plumber and the purchase of a well pressure pump. Then, the first weekend of January we needed to replace our hot water heater, because it had been leaking and the leak got much worse.

And that was great. For a few hours.

Until that evening when Jack was about to take his shower and we completely lost water again.

Sigh.

Which brings me to the rant that I unleashed on my poor husband. About WHY it is as a homeowner we suddenly have to know everything?!

Look, I bought my first house at age 24 and had it for 10 years before our current home. And we’ve been in our current home for 13 years. So that is 23 YEARS of home ownership. {Look, I can add too!}

Anyways, during that time I’ve had to figure out everything from being my own IT person to troubleshoot cable, wifi, modems and routers, to being a plumber who can switch out a flapper in the toilet tank as well as plunge a clog. I’ve cleaned out drains. And spackled walls. And taken apart a freaking refrigerator because the fan likes to ice up once a year.

I learned how to restring blinds. I change HVAC filters. And doorknobs. And reinstalled smoke alarms. And detached the water lines into the back of the washing machine to clean out the filters inside. And caulked bathroom tubs and toilets. I’ve balanced all the finances. Negotiated the contracts. And worked with a financial planner AND an accountant to oversee my husband’s trucking business.

And I work full time in marketing. And have had this blog for the past 14 years. And I’M TIRED.

Which brings us back to the fact that we had no water again. And that our first instinct was to try and figure it out ourselves. Especially because we are still playing catch up on bills and have been looking forward to the spring with hope that we will finally, finally, FINALLY be caught up.

On Monday we had sporadic water, which was enough to do the occasional toilet flush. But Tuesday and Wednesday we had nothing. I had to pick up some water gallons at the store so that we could flush toilets and brush teeth. By Wednesday, my kid was out of clean pants, I hadn’t showered in days, and I was DONE.

We tried and tried to figure out the problem ourselves. And save a buck by using our resources of generous friend who helped us with their time and knowledge. But when it comes down to it, we’re not plumbers. And before we went further down the hole of trying anything else, I gave up.

I called our plumber again.

And he immediately diagnosed the problem… we needed a new well pump.

Between the well pressure pump, the hot water heater and the new well pump, we spent almost $4,000 in unexpected bills. Which is one of those ‘well, you own a home…what do you expect’ kind of things. But it sucks. It really sucks.

BUT, at least we should be good when it comes to water for a while (at least I hope so, please knock on all the wood). We knew our well pump wouldn’t last forever (it was put in by the last owners). And frankly, there is never going to be a convenient time to have all this stuff break.

But now it’s done.

And that shower that I finally took on Wednesday night was glorious.   

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DIY: Hemming Sweater Sleeves

I bought this pretty cardigan on clearance from Summersalt last year and I just didn’t love the sleeves.

I tried wearing it a few times to see if I’d get over it. However, the fact that the body of the sweater was a super lightweight and soft cashmere and the light blue portion of the sleeves were a thick, ribbed cotton finally broke me.

And I decided to chop them off.

Initially I was going to cut off ALL the light blue, but then I realized that there were no elastic cuffs on the cashmere portion, so after wearing it a bit the new cuffs would most likely get all loose and baggy. With that in mind, I decided to leave a little bit of the light blue cuff.

I eyeballed my new hem and pinned it into place.

Then, I just hand-sewed around once. It went super quickly!

I trimmed the excess and that was it! Here is the new inside of the sweater:

And here is the new outside:

It took me less than an hour and I love the sweater SO MUCH MORE now!

Clothes are just clothes. If they aren’t making you happy, it’s so easy to make these little changes until they better meet your needs!

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Winter Skin: All My Current Favorite Products for Dry Skin Relief

Source: Photo by Bas Van Brandwiik on Unsplash

My skin is always on the dry side, but as soon as winter rolls in, it’s like my face and body forget how to retain moisture entirely. Between the cold air outside and the dry heat inside, my skin feels tight and uncomfortable. Over the years, I’ve tried dozens of products to keep my skin hydrated and here are my current holy grail items that are helping my skin stay soft:

Face

I throw in some random stuff every so often if I see something fun at TJ Maxx, but these are my ride-or-die products that work for me. I’ve been using the Farmhouse Fresh cleanser for a couple years and it is very gentle and moisturizing. The COSRX is one of my hero products that I’m obsessed with and I use that and then follow it with the Vitamin C serum. If you’re a bit grossed out with the idea of snail mucin, that’s cool. I’ve also tried the Bean Essence serum from Korean skincare brand Mixsoon, which is very similar.

I switched to this moisturizer last summer and it is really great for face AND neck. As for the Biolements Skin Editor, it’s pricey but a little goes a long way. I think my last jar lasted me well over a year. I’d include a nighttime cream, but I keep switching between a few options and they’re all great but nothing super special.

Body

I received this shea butter as a birthday promo from Farmhouse Fresh in the fall and my initial thoughts were that the lotion was too thin to be moisturizing enough for me. And OHMYGOD I was so wrong. This lotion feels lightweight when you smooth it on, but it locks in moisture and keeps my skin silky soft all day and night long. It also smells amazing. My only complaint is that I HATE the glass bottles. Once you get past the halfway mark, it’s so hard to get the lotion out. I wish it was in a squeeze tube.

Hands and Feet

Ugh, my poor heels have never been so dry in my LIFE. I don’t know if it’s perimenopause (which apparently everything is at my age), or just random luck, but they have been driving me crazy for the past 6-8 months. I have tried EVERYTHING and the only combo that works for me is to put on the Farmhouse Fresh Shea Butter after my shower, top it with the Ancient Greek Remedy Oil and then throw on the gel heel socks for a bit. I try to sleep in the heel socks, but I end up throwing them across the room in the middle of the night.

The Ancient Greek Remedy Oil is also AMAZING for hands. My poor husband’s knuckles get so dry and alligator-like, so I’ll rub this into the backs of his hands when he needs it, right before he goes to sleep. The first time I did it, he texted me the next day asking me what magic was in the oil. My hands are less terrible, but when I feel my knuckles getting dry I rub in a few drops. I also picked up the snail hand cream at TJ Maxx on a whim and it’s so, so, so good. It moisturizes and soaks in really quickly and I will definitely be rebuying it again.

If you want to get super fancy, try the heel peeling mask. You leave it on for about 30 minutes and then wash it off and go about your business. The heel area of your feet will fully peel over the next week or so and a much softer version of your feet will come out. Yes, the peeling part is gross but gross in a kind of cool way… I used my first pack a couple months ago and was shocked at how well it worked. So I immediately ordered a couple more packs to keep on hand!

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